When We Fall In Love, We Hope - Both Egotistically And Altruistically - That We Shall Be Finally, Truly Seen: Judged And Approved. Of Course, Love Does Not Always Bring Approval: Being Seen May Just As Well Lead To A Thumbs-down And A Season In Hell.
It Is One Of The Most Effective Attitudes Of The Neurotic To Measure Thumbs Down, So To Speak, A Real Person By An Ideal, Since In Doing So He Can Depreciate Him As Much As He Wishes.
